NMNK Meaning… and 9 Other Dating Acronyms You Should Actually Care About (Especially If You’re Over Swiping)

Let’s break down what the hell it means, why it matters, and nine other acronyms that pop up in dating apps, texts, and awkward brunch stories your friend swears are “not about her.”

So… what does NMNK mean?

NMNK = No More Nice Kindness.
Yep. It’s as bitter as it sounds.

This acronym started popping up when people (usually women, sometimes men) got fed up with being too nice, constantly accommodating, ignoring red flags, and bending over backwards for people who wouldn’t even confirm a reservation.

It’s less “I’m done being kind” and more “I’m done letting people walk all over me in dating.” Think of it like a polite way of saying: “Try me again and I swear I’ll ghost you mid-convo.”

And honestly? We support it. The dating world has enough performative politeness and breadcrumbing. Being direct is the new sexy.

9 Other Dating Acronyms Worth Knowing (So You Don’t Accidentally Agree to a 3-Way)

Because no one wants to Google things mid-text…

1. DTR – Define The Relationship
When someone says “We need to DTR,” it’s time to talk about whether this is a situationship, relationship, or a long-term “just vibing.”

2. IRL – In Real Life
Used when you finally meet someone off the apps. You know, like humans used to.

3. NSFW – Not Safe For Work
Usually involves a text, a photo, and a regret that sets in 0.3 seconds later.

4. RO – Relationship-Oriented
Shorthand used on dating profiles for people who are looking for something serious. We like these ones.

5. LTR – Long Term Relationship
If someone writes this in their bio, they’re either genuinely ready for commitment… or trying to impress their therapist.

6. SMH – Shaking My Head
Used when your date says, “I don’t really believe in labels” after six months of “just hanging out.”

7. GGG – Good, Giving, and Game
Popularized by Dan Savage. Basically means you’re open-minded, generous in bed, and down to try things. Proceed accordingly.

8. FWB – Friends With Benefits
You’ll think you’re emotionally detached… until one of you catches feelings and ruins the whole thing.

9. WYD – What You Doing?
A.k.a. the 11:47 PM text that we pretend not to see. Don’t fall for it. He’s not asking if you want dinner.

Why This Matters (Especially If You're Over Dating Like It's a Job Interview)

Acronyms are more than just buzzwords; they’re shortcuts. And if you’re still in the dating pool (or clawing your way out of it), it helps to know what people are really trying to say.



At Executive Connections Dating, we decode this stuff for a living. We match real, successful people who are ready for intentional, exclusive relationships. No swipe fatigue. No guessing games. No NMNK energy needed. Just quality introductions to people who speak your same language (with or without the acronyms).